Older Women and Sexual Violence

Tuesday 10th November 2020

Older Women and Sexual Violence
Support for Older Women - The Chilling Silence Project

We are pleased to launch a new guide that we have developed for people who work with or support older women who have experienced rape or sexual abuse at any time in their life.

The guide is based on the findings of our research project looking at the needs and experiences of women over 55, across the South West of England, who have experienced sexual violence and includes information about:

The guide includes information on:

  • Trauma, older women and the impact of sexual violence
  • How to respond to someone making a disclosure of sexual violence
  • What we know about older women and their experiences of sexual violence

You can download a copy of the guide here

It is difficult to tell someone about rape or sexual abuse at any age. At the Women's Centre Cornwall, we understand from the older women we have talked to, that there may be extra barriers which make it harder for them to come forward get the support that they need for these experiences.

It is a myth that only younger women and raped, sexually assaulted or sexually abused. Women can experience rape and sexual abuse at any time in their life. It is more common than you may think. 1 in 5 women in the UK have experienced rape or sexual abuse and many older women will have experienced sexual violence multiple times throughout their life.

Sexual violence is a deeply personal trauma and may involve someone you know abusing you.

Sexual violence can be perpetrated in many places, including  your own home as well as residential, care and nursing homes environments. The impact of sexual violence can be devastating.

We know that many older women  feel shame, embarrassment, humiliation, self-blame and fear about telling others what has happened. In the past, awareness about sexual violence was limited and, often, accepted as part of life. Some women will look back at what happened to them and feel it was ‘not serious enough’. Other women who experienced sexual violence as a child or in younger adulthood may think, “It happened years ago; I should be ‘over it by now’”. This is not true. It was serious enough and you have the right to access support for your experience.

If you have experienced rape, sexual assault, sexual harassment or unwanted touching, at any time in your life, we are here to listen, believe and support you. 

Our services are available for women of all ages, regardless of when you experienced the abuse. .

You can find more information on the services we offer here.

There is lots of useful information which may help you understand and process your own reactions to your experience. You can access it here.

The Women's Centre Cornwall is part of the South West Rape Crisis Centre Partnership (a collaboration with GRSAC, SARSAS & DRCSAS) working on a project across the region to raise awareness of sexual violence against older women and to bring about change. In January 2020, the partnership published its findings from a survey and research on the needs and experiences of women within the South West, aged 55 and over, who have experienced sexual violence. 

Our report, The Chilling Silence, highlights our local and national findings and makes recommendations on how local police forces, local authorities, local aged care and statutory organisations can help affected older women in the region. You can read the report here.

Our awareness campaign and training will be rolled out over 2020.

If you would like to get involved in helping develop services for older women, we want to hear from you. 

For further information on the project, awareness campaign, posters and training please contact us.

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Funded by comic Relief The guide was produced as part of the South West Rape Crisis Partnership for Women 55+ project funded by Comic Relief.


*** UPDATE **** 

As part of our 16 days campaign 'Survival is Not a Disorder' and to demand an end to male violence against women and girls we host a live conversation with the +55 Women's group to raise awareness of the impact of violence against older women, they will launch our guide developed to support people who work with older women who have experienced rape or sexual abuse.
“In the Chilling Silence survey 60% of +55 women stated they had never accessed support for their experience of sexual violence despite experiencing life- long trauma…
Why didn’t they seek specialist support?
Why continue with the emotional distress and being medicated for anxiety and depression?
The answer is complicated but listen in on the 1st December to understand more...”

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